12 Truths About Men

  1. If another woman walks by, a man will look. Doesn’t matter whom he’s with at the time. If he’s with you, make sure you’re the reason he stays with you.
  2. It is the thrill of the chase. A man can never tire of it, for if he does, woman loses attraction. For a man there is no sanctuary.
  3. Men don’t need to read a woman’s mind, for it matters not to him. A man has a life to lead, she’s invited but she doesn’t need to attend.
  4. A man has many reasons to marry, but in today’s society, he has more reasons not to get married. Either way, the government will make him pay so men must choose wisely
  5. Men think logically and rationally. If he gets overly emotional, he becomes weak
  6. A man wants a woman who knows how to be feminine, warm, and inviting around her man, no matter what she does outside the home
  7. If you’re a loud-mouthed ratchet it’s because you’ve beaten the man out of him and turned him into your ATM. Congratulations, you’ve won the lottery. Enjoy your spoils because it may not last very long.
  8. If a man loves you, great, don’t spoil it by asking him to hold your purse as that makes him look like a cuckold. There are hooks on every bathroom stall door and changing room to hang your purse. It’s your fashion accessory, not his.
  9. Men do know the value of a good woman. If he doesn’t value you, it’s not because he isn’t mature, it’s because your values don’t mesh with his. Men don’t circle around for another pass, there’s a reason why you’re an ex or passed over.
  10. Men do want a woman he can trust. He doesn’t need to her to uplift him, he does that on his own, because doing so shows her he is strong enough to protect her and she realizes what she has.
  11. Men lie, women lie. It’s human nature. But men are logical, rational beings; if you don’t want the harsh truth, deal with the lie. If the dress makes you look fat, don’t wear it. If the jeans make your butt look big, don’t wear them.
  12. In this day and age, they know a virgin is a unicorn but they prefer women with low mileage. High mileage cars don’t last   long.
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Why can’t men just be… well, Men?

A friend posted an article on her Facebook page to yet another article bemoaning the fact that men just aren’t men anymore,

Funny article but the feminist movement is to blame! The decline of strong family values, no fault divorce, the over abundance of men who are unwilling to raise the children they fathered, and the feminization of men to be more sensitive and to treat women like equals which has created masses of full grown “horny toddlers”… All courtesy of some short sighted bra burning,”

He said; “Did I miss the paragraph in this article that suggested feminist bashing is somehow what real men ought to be doing?”

She wrote. How did men behaving badly become women’s fault? The feminist movement accomplished one thing: it allowed women to become equal participants in the workforce so that we can be self supporting and self reliant. We were/are no longer forced to be dependent on a man for long term financial support, and became free to leave if our partner didn’t treat us well – an option that didn’t exist financially or culturally until very recently. The feminist movement didn’t create bad men, it just gave women the freedom not to be bound to them or dependent on them. There are plenty of good ones out there. But now we can take our time to find them and be with them because they are good partners and because we want to be, not because we need someone to take care of us
Pansy guy replied: Family values were not unraveled by the feminist movement; they are reinforced. Strong women do not make weak men. That is a fallacy that is perpetrated by the anti-feminists of the world. To suggest men somehow fail at the hands of women’s increased rights, safety, or health, is to blame the victim in the most basic philosophical terms.

Pansy guy totally drank the cool aid

Ask him how exactly they were reinforced

Men aren’t failing, they aren’t allowed into the game

Feminism crushed all ways that allowed men to teach boys how to be real men. Men’s clubs, golf courses/country clubs, cigar shops, even the military were all “schools” for training men.

Who said men are behaving badly? They are simply doing what they have been taught and what is being perpetuated as socially acceptable. It’s simple. The article is ridiculous to insinuate that the Internet and technology have somehow limp-dicked men and made them pansies. It’s actually really insulting to most upstanding men. Men have become pansies because they have been devalued in relationships, the home, and society in general.

Think of it this way… Women, do you appreciate it when a man opens a door for you? I’m guessing you do, I know many do. But not all men were taught that is a courtesy that they could render to women. Instead they have been taught that she can do it herself. And damn right she can. But it’s these small things that have eroded the provider/protector nature of men and shamed men from being men and be masculine in general. Men can not do things for women without them getting butt hurt about a man being dominate and the Captain of his ship.

She wrote: I agree wholeheartedly that the feminist movement did reap some amazing benefits. Trust me, as an Active Duty Army Officer; I understand the benefits of the feminist movement. Everyday I am reminded that I comprise of less than 10% of my peers, and I receive commensurate treatment and pay as my male counterparts. I am a case in point of the successes of the feminist movement. Gender equality has been liberating for both men and women. But the consequent devaluation of men and demonizing of masculinity that has evolved with the feminist movement and mutated feminist rhetoric is problematic.

If a man has had strong male role models and wasn’t shamed or scolded for his masculinity, that man is more likely to be the strong Alpha male who can handle a strong independent woman. He is not threatened by her strengths and independence. He values them. BUT it takes a stronger woman to value a strong Alpha male who is not going to be a wallflower in the home nor is he going to be treated like a lapdog. The feminist movement didn’t teach us that. Instead it taught us we need to be treated equal and that men need to be more sensitive to women’s needs. Which is crock of shit if a woman is really as strong and independent as she thinks she is. Sure we want a man who is respectful and appreciative, but do you honestly want a man that you can boss around and wears the skirt in the relationship. No, you want someone who compliments your strengths and weaknesses but is able of being that provider and protector. Unfortunately that is not what all men are taught—remember, women, can do it ourselves!

And as far as family values being reinforced by the feminist movement, I’d like to hear more about that. With increased (and quite alarming) divorce rates and single parent households (oh yeah, I’m one of those too), it’s hard to see how family values have been reinforced. Instead, I think it’s just become easier to quit when times get rough… I mean hell guys, “she can do it on her own” or ladies “you can just screw him over” with the courts…. yep, reinforced family values alright.

Men have not failed at the hands of women’s increased rights, safety or health…. men have been failed…by the feminist movement and feminism—-which is more than the political movement that keeps getting referenced…it’s the philosophical norm of feminism that has evolved from empowerment of women and mutated into the demonization of men. Guarantee you can’t walk into a single university across this country and take a women’s studies course that doesn’t somehow tie into how men have oppressed women, and that we (women) are victims that have been/or need to be freed of the chains of the evil man. Lofty logic if you ask me. And to insinuate that women are the victims… well hell, if they want to be they are… I’m not nor do I feel the need to play a victimization card for the chromosomes I was dealt.

This woman, my friend, just gets it. She works on being feminine, dresses nicely, grows her hair out long, makeup (when not in uniform), stays in shape and works her girl game. My friend has four combat tours to Iraq and Afghanistan under her belt.

So to all the men out there, it’s time to step up and be, well, men. Despite all the fluff a man gets served about being gooey, it just doesn’t work so stop.

The Sex Camel

camel3The Sex Camel- the cumulative effect of a woman (rarely a man) who goes for an extended time without sex.

I first heard of this when I was talking with some friends of mine who were discussing this “syndrome”. I asked if it hurts. I was told no that you just get used to it to the point where they (the ones suffering this malady) no longer really think about sex at all. They can take it or just leave it.

How does this syndrome occur? Well, in the case of my friends it mainly comes from extended, prolonged exposure to long duration deployments of their spouses to combat zones. It may also occur in non-military households/relationships where attraction between partners is greatly diminished

I for one, can not think this can be healthy for any woman. I’m not a doctor by training but I know what I’m like and how I feel when I go more than two days without sex!

I will do what I can to maintain attraction between myself and my significant other so this type of camel can’t make it to the oasis…

Friendzoning your Husband

576202_597141166980827_456157226_n Meme’s like this are everywhere. Most of the most ludicrous ones are those that want marriages to be friendships. You hear it over and over how a man makes overly gushing remarks to his beloved about her being his best friend but lately, I’ve seen it coming from women more and more.

When a man says to this to his woman and/or future spouse he automatically makes a beta mistake. In often cases, he doesn’t realize he’s done so, mostly because our society has trained him to be a thoughtful mangina. This is a display of lower value and men, if you’re reading this now, stop saying stuff like this. It makes you look like a wuss. When a man decides to betroth his supposed beloved, its because he wants to have sex (and lots of it) with this one person. Sex, in a relationship, is truly the glue that binds. If you hear anything else, it’s complete beta tripe.

Women, if you say something insipid like this to your man you are freindzoning your beloved. Stop it. A man already has friends. You are not his friend. You are his wife (or soon to be). How sexy it must be to stay up all night on a sleepover, helping him polish his nails, curling your man’s hair, playing with makeup, or even worse, playing dress-up, and talking the latest gossip from the water cooler.  Is this what you truly want? Friendzoning your beloved automatically puts you at risk of being swayed by that real Alpha Wolf because you’ve already lowered your husband’s status in the relationship.

My sleepovers with my wife consist of wearing her ass out. My sleepovers consist of making my wife have to explain why she’s walking funny at work the next day, or telling the kids to make their own breakfast because she stayed up too late and has no energy to move. If this is the type of sleepover you ladies had envisioned with this stupid meme, you really need to rethink your approach. This type of crap is why we have a nation rapidly filling with Hipsters and Metrosexuals. Appealing isn’t it? Ladies, do Hipsters or Metrosexuals give you the tingles? Or merely provide you with a friend to discuss the latest fashion trends or celebrity gossip on the Today Show or in People Magazine?

A real man, when hit with this, will merely laugh and then look you in the eye and say, “You’re so cute when you say that” and goes on with his business.  A beta will get all squishy, then start gushing on and on about professed love, and how much they appreciate being your best friend because they can tell you everything including all their deepest secrets, and could you please help him match his scarf with that fedora and rolled up jeans?

A relationship thrives between two people when they both have options but realize what they have together is worth more. It doesn’t come from friendzoning your man.

Ladies, do you really want your man to be your “best friend” or your “Man”, fully capable of protecting you when things get tough and providing for your needs? Think about it when you post stuff like this.

Anxious yet?

A recent Gallup poll showed that only about 22% of Americans think our country is going in the right direction. An interesting thought when over 50% of registered voters wanted to keep the status quo going. Why the disparity? I guess hope is a method.

If you aren’t feeling any anxiety perhaps you should and here’s why. With the new push for amnesty the effects of bringing on 20 million new potential workers into the system with a chronic unemployment rate above 7%, habitual trillion dollar deficits, and a new massive (1/6 of our current economy) entitlement program known as Obamacare that we’ll all be forced to pay into, and flat wages should cause one to shudder at the iceberg we’re about to hit.

If this impending home brew of disaster doesn’t cause concern, I’m not sure what will…

It’s coming to an America near you, and very quickly.

It’s a Trap!

Trap  Men, do not fall into this trap. If you’re dating a new girl, do not, I repeat, DO NOT, say the those eight little letters first to a woman. If you do, you have just sealed your life-ending beta servitude to her.

This is the most insidious trap most men fall into in today’s Feminism 3.0 world.

If a girl has serious game today’s man can’t help but fall into the trap. They’ve got it down to a science. Today’s man has been indoctrinated since birth to defer to a woman in all things including these eight little letters. We’ve been conditioned to think that if we say this, our world will turn into one filled with unicorns, glitter, rainbows and never-ending sex.

What really happens is that you’ve signed over all rights to your balls, manhood, and will feast on a steady diet of progesterone laden beta for the rest of your life. Only you won’t understand what just happened. The blue goggles in which you now look at your item of affection will bedazzle you with her smile will forever cloud your judgement.

Men, just don’t do it. Maintain your position of strength. When pure frustration comes forth from her mouth because you haven’t said it but the nagging starts from her to get you to say those letters, just lean and say, yeah babe, I know you do, it’s ok. Maintain frame men, maintain your frame. One last note. For those of you that already succumbed to the trap, when or if she says those eight crazy letters to you, there is still hope. You can also lean in and state the same, “I know you do babe” with a cocky smirk on your face and then leave the area. Watch what happens…

The Immigration Fiasco

To my fellow countrymen, do not be fooled. What could be a really simple deal to actually deal with an illegal immigration problem in this country could be summed up in about 20 pages or less. Some of us call it metrics but to the politicians plying their trade in DC, its called pork payoffs. An Immigration Bill that needs over 1,200 pages to get its point across is a game of futility with the US Citizens and yes, illegal immigrants as the biggest losers in this game. Don’t look at the little man behind the curtain, just look at the shiny bauble in front of you.

English: Container used for illegal immigratio...

English: Container used for illegal immigration to the U.S., 22 Chinese were arrested at the Seattle seaport. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Make no mistake, the only losers in this deal are the illegal immigrants themselves. I’m not PC so I’m not going to call this group of folks anything else but what they are; ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS.period. I have nothing against those that came here and want to go through the legal process of wanting to become a productive citizen in this country

but I don’t have sympathy for those that came here illegally and want the free payoff that the game players in DC want to hand you. For whatever reason they decided to come here, if you didn’t get a VISA and come through normal channels, realistically, they are an illegal invader. This is the only country I know that treats this group of folks nicer than some of its own citizens. I’ve traveled to foreign countries and they monitor your travels with a fine tooth comb. Once your time is up, out you go.

Here’s what you are. You are pawns. The only thing you become are 12 million (or more) new taxpayers to fund the most selfish generation of our history, the babyboomers. They couldn’t cut it in the 80’s with the dot.com crash, junk bonds, and the “Wall Street” era so lets figure out a way to fleece the US in another way. This is where you, the illegal immigrant, come in to do your part.

You get wow’ed and oogled over as the latest fad in order to make this generation feel validated and empowered. I feel sad for you because you actually buy this load of crap being hoisted on you. Make no mistake, your position in life in this country will be no better when this crappy bill passes Congress.

As this boomer generation continues their long march into retirement, you, the illegal immigrant should smile big and proud because YOU will be left holding the bag while they play their rounds of golf or whatever they want to do all safe and snug in the warmth that you will provide. Oh and when it’s your turn to live the American Dream, well…