The Continued Rise of the Beta Male

Here is another example of the continual decline of masculinity.

Dude is riding bitch on a motorcycle. There is nothing more to say other than Enjoy the Decline


Why The Best Girls Always End Up With The Biggest Assholes She said… (He said)

It’s always fun to come across gems like this. Most of these lists are always about trying to deal with that little hamster that likes to spin the wheel hoping to rationalize away all their hindbrain evolutionary wiring. Simply put, all women fall for assholes because from an evolutionary standpoint, assholes in today’s society have the best genes for her potential offspring… Oh yeah, and the dopamine rush they constantly bring.

So without further ado, lets go through the numbersMy thoughts in bold

Why The Best Girls Always End Up With The Biggest Assholes – by Holly Riordan

Sure, by now we should know better than to keep falling for the same types of guys who will leave us heartbroken and totally jaded. But it’s a difficult cycle to break because:


She said: Because we’re not in touch with how amazing we are, we let our standards fall.

He said: Because you all are unique snowflakes and ALL different from her… uh huh, yup.. When assholes give you the tingles, that next sound is your reason going out the window.


She said: We tell them the truth so we assume they’re giving us the same treatment. We never see the cheaters coming — because we’re decent, we think the guy we’re dating is decent.

He said: Said the hamster once again… Assholes see right through this BS, Nice Guys actually believe you. That’s why the Betas are all pissed at the Assholes, LOL Their armor isn’t shiny enough to overcome an asshole’s devilry.


She said: We don’t like to hurt anyone’s feelings. If a man asks us out, we’ll give him a chance, and if he asks for a second chance, we’ll give him that, too. Assholes are the pushiest people around, which is why they’re the hardest to say “no” to.

He said: She won’t hurt anyone’s feelings if she thinks she can win at something like one-upmanship on another female. Assholes know the rules to the game and outplay her… With the tingles he produces, she.just.CAN’


She said: After you screw up, we’ll give you the opportunity to make things right, even if you don’t deserve it. We genuinely believe that people can change, which is why we waste way so much time in a relationship that’s going nowhere.

He said: Assholes don’t care.


She said: We’re super sweet and fun to be around, which is why we have plenty of options. Of course, assholes are confident and flirty, which is why they’re the ones we gravitate towards. It’s not until later that we find out how sketchy they really are.

He said: You’re right, they are for a reason. But seriously, you did see it coming even during the dopamine rush. Solipsism is the rose-colored glasses honey.


She said: Even if a guy has a million undesirable traits, we’ll focus on the one good thing about him. It’s why we get along with everyone we meet, but it’s also why we get screwed over.

He said: Said by a snowflake trying to deny riding the party carousel.


She said: Assholes love to go after nice girls like us because they think that we’ll let them walk all over us. They want to do whatever they want without getting punished for it, which is why we’re the perfect targets.

He said: Assholes don’t care… rinse and repeat.


She said: We know how tough we are, so we assume we can handle a rough relationship. Of course, even the strongest women can be torn apart by a guy.

He said: You go grrrl. Don’t worry, you’ll have your orbiters you’ll turn to and make you feel better about your decisions.


She said: Truth be told, our lives are pretty boring. That’s why some of us secretly like the drama that comes with dating an asshole. It gives us something to complain about.

He said: Right on target Captain! Wimmins hate being bored and love the emotional rollercoaster.


She said: We’ve dealt with so many assholes throughout our lives that we think they’re all that’s out there. We don’t realize that there are genuinely good guys in the world that would treat us the way we deserve. That’s why the cycle continues and we date asshole after asshole.

He said: Said like every snowflake that is high mileage after the party years, now an Alpha Widow, and and wants a good beta to settle down and provide for her. Of course, within a period of time of no tingles from the beta, she’s about to go Eat, Pray, Love on the poor sap. She’s still pining over the asshole.


She said: Most men aren’t assholes at first, and by the time their true colors start coming out, we’re already attached. It’s hard to break up with them when we’ve already pictured a future together. That’s how they trap us.

He said: It’s all HIS FAULT!!!

To all you men out there, Man Up by getting in touch with your inner asshole, seriously, she’ll appreciate it.

Maybe its your turn… to be a cuckold.

Yay Norm.



Angela was a single woman not only looking for a man for herself, but also for her son. Norm felt that other sites seemed shallow, but eHarmony brought him the exact kind of person he was looking for. Fall in love like Angela & Norm through eHarmony today.
He looks happy but where else can one see an open plea for someone to willingly submit to being a cuckold. He actually looks happy about it too

12 Truths About Men

  1. If another woman walks by, a man will look. Doesn’t matter whom he’s with at the time. If he’s with you, make sure you’re the reason he stays with you.
  2. It is the thrill of the chase. A man can never tire of it, for if he does, woman loses attraction. For a man there is no sanctuary.
  3. Men don’t need to read a woman’s mind, for it matters not to him. A man has a life to lead, she’s invited but she doesn’t need to attend.
  4. A man has many reasons to marry, but in today’s society, he has more reasons not to get married. Either way, the government will make him pay so men must choose wisely
  5. Men think logically and rationally. If he gets overly emotional, he becomes weak
  6. A man wants a woman who knows how to be feminine, warm, and inviting around her man, no matter what she does outside the home
  7. If you’re a loud-mouthed ratchet it’s because you’ve beaten the man out of him and turned him into your ATM. Congratulations, you’ve won the lottery. Enjoy your spoils because it may not last very long.
  8. If a man loves you, great, don’t spoil it by asking him to hold your purse as that makes him look like a cuckold. There are hooks on every bathroom stall door and changing room to hang your purse. It’s your fashion accessory, not his.
  9. Men do know the value of a good woman. If he doesn’t value you, it’s not because he isn’t mature, it’s because your values don’t mesh with his. Men don’t circle around for another pass, there’s a reason why you’re an ex or passed over.
  10. Men do want a woman he can trust. He doesn’t need to her to uplift him, he does that on his own, because doing so shows her he is strong enough to protect her and she realizes what she has.
  11. Men lie, women lie. It’s human nature. But men are logical, rational beings; if you don’t want the harsh truth, deal with the lie. If the dress makes you look fat, don’t wear it. If the jeans make your butt look big, don’t wear them.
  12. In this day and age, they know a virgin is a unicorn but they prefer women with low mileage. High mileage cars don’t last   long.

Why can’t men just be… well, Men?

A friend posted an article on her Facebook page to yet another article bemoaning the fact that men just aren’t men anymore,

Funny article but the feminist movement is to blame! The decline of strong family values, no fault divorce, the over abundance of men who are unwilling to raise the children they fathered, and the feminization of men to be more sensitive and to treat women like equals which has created masses of full grown “horny toddlers”… All courtesy of some short sighted bra burning,”

He said; “Did I miss the paragraph in this article that suggested feminist bashing is somehow what real men ought to be doing?”

She wrote. How did men behaving badly become women’s fault? The feminist movement accomplished one thing: it allowed women to become equal participants in the workforce so that we can be self supporting and self reliant. We were/are no longer forced to be dependent on a man for long term financial support, and became free to leave if our partner didn’t treat us well – an option that didn’t exist financially or culturally until very recently. The feminist movement didn’t create bad men, it just gave women the freedom not to be bound to them or dependent on them. There are plenty of good ones out there. But now we can take our time to find them and be with them because they are good partners and because we want to be, not because we need someone to take care of us
Pansy guy replied: Family values were not unraveled by the feminist movement; they are reinforced. Strong women do not make weak men. That is a fallacy that is perpetrated by the anti-feminists of the world. To suggest men somehow fail at the hands of women’s increased rights, safety, or health, is to blame the victim in the most basic philosophical terms.

Pansy guy totally drank the cool aid

Ask him how exactly they were reinforced

Men aren’t failing, they aren’t allowed into the game

Feminism crushed all ways that allowed men to teach boys how to be real men. Men’s clubs, golf courses/country clubs, cigar shops, even the military were all “schools” for training men.

Who said men are behaving badly? They are simply doing what they have been taught and what is being perpetuated as socially acceptable. It’s simple. The article is ridiculous to insinuate that the Internet and technology have somehow limp-dicked men and made them pansies. It’s actually really insulting to most upstanding men. Men have become pansies because they have been devalued in relationships, the home, and society in general.

Think of it this way… Women, do you appreciate it when a man opens a door for you? I’m guessing you do, I know many do. But not all men were taught that is a courtesy that they could render to women. Instead they have been taught that she can do it herself. And damn right she can. But it’s these small things that have eroded the provider/protector nature of men and shamed men from being men and be masculine in general. Men can not do things for women without them getting butt hurt about a man being dominate and the Captain of his ship.

She wrote: I agree wholeheartedly that the feminist movement did reap some amazing benefits. Trust me, as an Active Duty Army Officer; I understand the benefits of the feminist movement. Everyday I am reminded that I comprise of less than 10% of my peers, and I receive commensurate treatment and pay as my male counterparts. I am a case in point of the successes of the feminist movement. Gender equality has been liberating for both men and women. But the consequent devaluation of men and demonizing of masculinity that has evolved with the feminist movement and mutated feminist rhetoric is problematic.

If a man has had strong male role models and wasn’t shamed or scolded for his masculinity, that man is more likely to be the strong Alpha male who can handle a strong independent woman. He is not threatened by her strengths and independence. He values them. BUT it takes a stronger woman to value a strong Alpha male who is not going to be a wallflower in the home nor is he going to be treated like a lapdog. The feminist movement didn’t teach us that. Instead it taught us we need to be treated equal and that men need to be more sensitive to women’s needs. Which is crock of shit if a woman is really as strong and independent as she thinks she is. Sure we want a man who is respectful and appreciative, but do you honestly want a man that you can boss around and wears the skirt in the relationship. No, you want someone who compliments your strengths and weaknesses but is able of being that provider and protector. Unfortunately that is not what all men are taught—remember, women, can do it ourselves!

And as far as family values being reinforced by the feminist movement, I’d like to hear more about that. With increased (and quite alarming) divorce rates and single parent households (oh yeah, I’m one of those too), it’s hard to see how family values have been reinforced. Instead, I think it’s just become easier to quit when times get rough… I mean hell guys, “she can do it on her own” or ladies “you can just screw him over” with the courts…. yep, reinforced family values alright.

Men have not failed at the hands of women’s increased rights, safety or health…. men have been failed…by the feminist movement and feminism—-which is more than the political movement that keeps getting referenced…it’s the philosophical norm of feminism that has evolved from empowerment of women and mutated into the demonization of men. Guarantee you can’t walk into a single university across this country and take a women’s studies course that doesn’t somehow tie into how men have oppressed women, and that we (women) are victims that have been/or need to be freed of the chains of the evil man. Lofty logic if you ask me. And to insinuate that women are the victims… well hell, if they want to be they are… I’m not nor do I feel the need to play a victimization card for the chromosomes I was dealt.

This woman, my friend, just gets it. She works on being feminine, dresses nicely, grows her hair out long, makeup (when not in uniform), stays in shape and works her girl game. My friend has four combat tours to Iraq and Afghanistan under her belt.

So to all the men out there, it’s time to step up and be, well, men. Despite all the fluff a man gets served about being gooey, it just doesn’t work so stop.

The Sex Camel

camel3The Sex Camel- the cumulative effect of a woman (rarely a man) who goes for an extended time without sex.

I first heard of this when I was talking with some friends of mine who were discussing this “syndrome”. I asked if it hurts. I was told no that you just get used to it to the point where they (the ones suffering this malady) no longer really think about sex at all. They can take it or just leave it.

How does this syndrome occur? Well, in the case of my friends it mainly comes from extended, prolonged exposure to long duration deployments of their spouses to combat zones. It may also occur in non-military households/relationships where attraction between partners is greatly diminished

I for one, can not think this can be healthy for any woman. I’m not a doctor by training but I know what I’m like and how I feel when I go more than two days without sex!

I will do what I can to maintain attraction between myself and my significant other so this type of camel can’t make it to the oasis…

Friendzoning your Husband

576202_597141166980827_456157226_n Meme’s like this are everywhere. Most of the most ludicrous ones are those that want marriages to be friendships. You hear it over and over how a man makes overly gushing remarks to his beloved about her being his best friend but lately, I’ve seen it coming from women more and more.

When a man says to this to his woman and/or future spouse he automatically makes a beta mistake. In often cases, he doesn’t realize he’s done so, mostly because our society has trained him to be a thoughtful mangina. This is a display of lower value and men, if you’re reading this now, stop saying stuff like this. It makes you look like a wuss. When a man decides to betroth his supposed beloved, its because he wants to have sex (and lots of it) with this one person. Sex, in a relationship, is truly the glue that binds. If you hear anything else, it’s complete beta tripe.

Women, if you say something insipid like this to your man you are freindzoning your beloved. Stop it. A man already has friends. You are not his friend. You are his wife (or soon to be). How sexy it must be to stay up all night on a sleepover, helping him polish his nails, curling your man’s hair, playing with makeup, or even worse, playing dress-up, and talking the latest gossip from the water cooler.  Is this what you truly want? Friendzoning your beloved automatically puts you at risk of being swayed by that real Alpha Wolf because you’ve already lowered your husband’s status in the relationship.

My sleepovers with my wife consist of wearing her ass out. My sleepovers consist of making my wife have to explain why she’s walking funny at work the next day, or telling the kids to make their own breakfast because she stayed up too late and has no energy to move. If this is the type of sleepover you ladies had envisioned with this stupid meme, you really need to rethink your approach. This type of crap is why we have a nation rapidly filling with Hipsters and Metrosexuals. Appealing isn’t it? Ladies, do Hipsters or Metrosexuals give you the tingles? Or merely provide you with a friend to discuss the latest fashion trends or celebrity gossip on the Today Show or in People Magazine?

A real man, when hit with this, will merely laugh and then look you in the eye and say, “You’re so cute when you say that” and goes on with his business.  A beta will get all squishy, then start gushing on and on about professed love, and how much they appreciate being your best friend because they can tell you everything including all their deepest secrets, and could you please help him match his scarf with that fedora and rolled up jeans?

A relationship thrives between two people when they both have options but realize what they have together is worth more. It doesn’t come from friendzoning your man.

Ladies, do you really want your man to be your “best friend” or your “Man”, fully capable of protecting you when things get tough and providing for your needs? Think about it when you post stuff like this.